It's Not Easy

I know that most people's first thought about me being a single male on a site like this is pretty much to rule me out. I get it, but for those of you who claim to be interested in males, why not reach out? Do I have to be the one to approach the couple? Can you give me a hint? Send a note? Carrier pigeon? Smoke signals? Anything??? I'm already putting myself out there and trying to find someone to get in contact with, why not help a nice young man like myself out? I just might be worth it.