Can there be submission without PAIN ??

Looks as if the dominator have to inflict pain and the submissive has to like pain, could there be D/s without the S&M or B&D ? One who would obey uninhibitedly other dominations like verbal abuse and degradation but not pain.
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This is a life style choose you have to make.. but remember!! If you really look at it. The Sub has all the control. It's your job as a Dom to push he limits, but never go over them.. that's why you have a limits list so you both know each other's limits. There are things she wants me to do to her, that I just can't bring myself to do.!! Lol.
A good Dom, makes his Sub the highest priority!! And would never abuse her or him. And always do after care!!

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Yes. You can have a d. S. Without pain.
You can deprive instead of pain to punish. For example.
Eat her and play with her , but never penatrate.
My wife is a submissive, Masochist, so she loves pain. I'm a Dom, but not quite the satist she wants. Lol, but I'm learning. But because she lives pain. I can't. Punish with pain. So I punish other ways. She only gets the pain when she's good.

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The doms that have to inflict pain to get respect are not really doms. As long as you're willing to obey and do as told, there shouldn't be the need for pain at all.