Recently we had a high frills passenger, a designer attending a fashion bash invitation only show. To my surprise he gifted me some nice strappies that matched the red I was wearing, and yes, I enjoyed going to the bash with him (Devon honey, I am having stronger feelings that we are about to "take another step" to raise my very personal bar, and it feels... nice. This may be one of the ways we can do it publicly like you have mentioned.) (I do enjoy being subby to my hubby. In my mind, its like I have to do it because he wants me too.) // Cathy