Bi C/D and Str8 Men

I have noticed that the vast majority of men that contact me and want to met are married or have girlfrriends. Most post str8 and only looking for women or couples, yet I get private messages for meetings. Don't get my wrong I have no problem with this because that's al I'm interested in is str8 type guys and preferably married. So my question is , are guys that met me really str8 ? Do you wives find it hot that they are seeing someone like me or otherwise. Would any women ever watch a scenario like this ?