I have asked my hubby a number of times why he enjoys watching me have sex with others? He explains that sometimes the focus of his pleasure is upon seeing and having a chance to understand the pleasure that I have. I asked him further what turns him on the most... watching me fuck other men, or watching them fuck me? He said in effect the choices are only semantics and are rather the same, and it doesn't really matter, but he admits that when I am with an above average lover, when I am with a man that knows what he is doing and that I really enjoy, he likes that the most because of the very intensive orgasms that I have that makes me chirp like a birdie. LOL // Cathy