My hubby and I definitely enjoy our own individual kinks, and sometimes we even do it together. LOL Shortly after marriage we discovered a new toy... role playing, and oh man, for a little while we couldn't get enough of that, and then suddenly those things turned into reality and became a whole new world of sexuality, especially for me. The role playing opened up so many possibilities as well as our minds, and... my legs. I started getting what I really enjoyed, and my hubby was turned on by it like a Lion for a kitten in heat. Since then we have refined it a bit, practice does make... fun friends when the situation(s) develop, and kinky is as kinky does. We are not extreme kinky like some people are, but in the fetishes we enjoy... we do enjoy the extreme of... can't say it out loud here, but if we become friends... maybe I can whisper it :) // Cathy :)