It's a Rocktie pic that I like that reflects an idea of married sexuality available to us after discovering it in an arousing way, namely role playing. Devon has 2 brothers, and Duncan, the youngest at 33, is a hottie hunk, brutish cute in a boyish way that makes women look twice and move closer. Duncan and I often celebrate our birthdays only 5 days apart where the brothers interact hilariously and tease me outrageously. After role playing our fantasy 1,000 times Devon is suggesting something serious, and I answered hm to say, "Yes, I think Duncan and I would enjoy having a very quiet party this time." It's a mutual thing for Devon and I, but he encourages me to enjoy it for myself. During role play when I whisper things like, "Take me home honey, and bring Duncan," we orgasm like two rockets exploding into each other. I now commit to it, and I want it as much for myself as much as my wonderful sexy hubby wants it for me. // Cathy