To Whom It May Concern... it's just an easy reminder. You know who you are. It's a shame we have to live by such rules, but we can enjoy life the way we choose if we do it right. My hubby and I don't do it, protect strong discretion, as much for ourselves, but we do it carefully for others who are potentially more exposed to professional, community, and family criticisms than we are. For us, such criticisms are like water off a duck, and kiss our grits. When we look in the mirror, unlike the those in the cancel culture we are not miserable in our lives as they are. We are in fact very happy in our own part of culture that is obviously growing rapidly with many couples testing the waters, and good for them :) We are in fact expanding into multiple cultures as we go, especially some of the sexual cultures, and if someone has interesting new ideas... perhaps you know what to do here next :) // Cathy P.S. BTW... it's only a net pic.