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Very new to this lifestyle, husband has been fantasizing about his wife getting plowed by a big cock, wife is not so sure but willing to give it a try. We are looking for a BBC or BWC to spice things up in the bed room. Need a Bull with experience that can show us the ropes. We not swingers but we are open to the idea of an older dominant couple as mentors to ease us in. She would prefer someone assertive with confidence. She's not perfect but she's picky. This isn't going to be easy.