I was a bottom slave for 25 years. I became a switch in 2020. Looking for lifestyle friends.
About me / Looking for:
Highcog sapiosexual with a twist. 50yo swm, never married, no children,
I have been in the lifestyle for 30 years. I spent the first 25 years as a cuckold masochist slave. I experienced a period of intense personal growth in 2020, and over the last 5 years I have evolved into a full switch.
This is a radically different approach to a bio on here. I am a big fan of transparency.
I first became a part of the BDSM lifestyle in September of 1992, three months before leaving for Parris Island, and with the exception of one 7 week long “primal top” encounter in the fall of 1994, I was a sexual and emotional masochism slave for 25 years.
Given our abundance of spare time In 2020, I invested in a lot of self work. Processing the traumas that drove me to use masochism as a coping mechanism did not diminish my interest in D/s, but it did, finally, clear the blockage and allowed me to evolve into a full switch.
I am ready to start exploring this whole new domain of reality. I am here to connect with local people in the lifestyle.
Past Experiences:
I was an extreme intense edge-play submissive masochist cuckold slave from 1994 to 2020.
I am now a full switch conceptually, but I have yet to act on this IRL. I am here to explore my new paradigm.
I'm Okay with:
Being Film & Pictures, Receiving Oral from Husband, Give & Receive Oral with Husband, Husband Cleaning Up, Husband Swallowing My Cum, Dominating Wife & Husband, Playing a Force Fucking Scene
I'm a Sub / Slave:
I'm submissive, I am a bedroom slave, Will do as told, Will eat pussy day and night, I consider myself a Masochism, Your 24/7 Housekeeper Slave, Loves to Eat Ass, Enjoy being Humiliated, Enjoy being Restrainted
Fetish & Interest:
Ass Fucking, Ass Rimming, Being in a Cuckold Relation, Giving Creampies, Cuckold Couples, Gangbangs, Getting My Ass Fuck, High Heels, Hotwife Lifestyle, Husband Watches, Polyamory, Pregnant Women, Public Nudity, Stag & Vixen Couples, Stockings, Strapon, Swinger Couples
Okay w/ Secretly Sharing:
Does Not Apply
BDSM Interest:
Bondage/Restraint, Breath Play, Chastity, Cock & Ball Torture, Collar/Leash, Dom/domme, Enema, Fisting, Force Sex, Golden Showers (urine), Humiliation, Masochism/Masochist, Medical Play, Pegging, Rape Fantasy, Sadism/Sadist, Sensory Deprivation, Subspace, Suspension
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